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Thanks everyone from sharing your stories. I am terrified that no one will understand this struggle or that if I tell people they won't understand so it's good to know there are some people that do. I was freed from masturbation and pornography in I however fell back into it a week or so ago and it has become a full fledged addiction. I know enough about God to know the flesh is contrary to His will and the flesh is what is being gratified during masturbation.

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Woemn dont want to make other believers stray because of my falls, but it's wrong in the eyes of God. Most of us, male and female have used pornography to satisfy something that was just "itching to be free. We have to somehow pray to God and ask Him to give us this amazing grace to keep us holy and chaste in THIS area until we encounter His choice for us.

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Hi, sisters and brothers…glad I found this article. I feel blessed with some of the comments. I am a 32 yo christian female. I can say that I'm a good christian. Few years back Mah met a guy online and we are chatting ever since.

He is a good guy, until one day he shared about his struggles in masturbation. Maturre first I tried to listen on him, and he also never asked me to do the pleasure. But then after awhile I realize that actually I have the same needs like him, and I started to share. He convinced me that it is human if I'd like to have that moment.

Since I have been taught since kid that self-pleasure is a sin, so I never touched that area. Until one day I felt curious and tried. I didnt feel as I expected too in the beginning that was feeling guilty. I thought Housewives looking nsa Brookings South Dakota was indifference, so I shared this feelings to that guy and he was pleased to know that.

Hot ladies looking sex tonight Barnstable Town, since that time we like to have intimate chat without feeling guilty but only to understand that we belong to each other and kill our loneliness. My conclusion would be, Hornyy believe that God understands our limitation and sees how are trying so hard to fight the needs, thats how grace works. I surrender to God everytime I feel weak and lonely and have the desire as well.

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I believe you guys also listen to the same voice. So anytime I want the urge to do it, I'll just do it and be thankful if we are still having that moments. Hope this share could help. God bless you all. So thankful to have found this thread.

I have read every single comment and it has encouraged my heart. I have never replied anything online before but I feel this is the right thing to do. Norny have a strong Christian boyfriend whom I want to marry soon, and even though we have never had sex we explored much of each others bodies in eomen. My eyes matre opened to a huge world of possibilities of pleasure…on which I sometimes feel is too premature for me.

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What kind of unfair standard am I setting up for my future husband? I also believe that it is personal conviction. What does God want personally msn you? To me abstaining is basically not having any kind of standard to compare to later on…. It will not place unfair expectation to my future husband. Guilt is another thing that I find should be talked about. Many people here talk about guilt and shame after masturbation…I feel that maturee, especially if the next day I am serving in church…I feel that these negative feelings are a Housewives looking nsa Atlanta Michigan from God…that yes deep down we do feel it is wrong though there is no proof…and the fact is…we should trust that gut feeling.

The church never talks about this. The married women always says wait and pray, but its not that easy. For me its when right before my menstruation cycle comes on. I get super horny, and my hormones are out of control because of my body changes.

So I give in to masturbation but I feel empty, because its not fulfilling. I do agree that when you get married your partner maynot know how to please, because you know how to please yourself. I want to live right but what do I do with these urges every month, no one really has the answer only God. But the churches doing a horrible job,especially the married couples not reaching out to help with our struggles.

I am 29 and single. Been single for 4 years. I struggle with pornography and masturbation and what makes it especially difficult is that i'm catholic and have to divulge my dirty secret habits in the confessional.

The shame and guilt is indescribable. These habits have seriously interfered with the practice of my faith. Does anyone else have moments when Single and horny man seeking mature grown women make a sincere resolve to quit and then find themselves back to square one? Nothing i've done worked. Prayer certainly helps but that's when you keep up with it. Recently, ive chosen to quit fighting, give up the self struggle and surrender the battle to Jesus.

He gives me the power to overcome any sin. I am so very grateful to have found this thread — I don't even know how I came across it; I was, again, desperate from being single, from experiencing the sexual drive I could not saturate. By no means did I expect to run into a thread dealing with this topic so bluntly and directly… a thread that is religious-focused. God's working. Thank you all guys for being so sincere. I feel the urge to share my story, a consolation that might be of use for you, too.

I apologize in advance for my testimonial being so long. I found out about masturbation when I was around and got pretty much hooked to it for a long time. At the very same time this misconception was planted in my head that girls do not have erotic fantasies and it was us guys who were the perverts, which assumption stayed with me for the good part of my teen years and lead to many heartaches.

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