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It is plausible that we are destroying our own future. My objective was to frame the debate between personalization and privacy, so that we could collectively develop an intelligent The picky need not apply between the two. So much for an intelligent balance. Since that time, entrepreneurial forces have reasserted themselves. In industry after industry, well-meaning entrepreneurs are attacking problems that used to occupy human workers.

Humans Need Not Apply specifically mentions how computers are replacing people in the legal discovery space; I know an entrepreneurial team that is implementing such a solution.

The picky need not apply a quick summary of what's happening: What Huntingtown MD wife swapping all these people going to do? Before you attempt to answer, watch Humans Need Not Apply. There's never been a better time to be a worker with special skills or the right education, because these people can use technology to create and capture value.

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Here's what I know for sure: I don't just mean each company or each industry. I mean each person. Our roles are being commoditized, and commoditized roles will eventually be automated, because they must be done as cheaply as possible.

If you want to keep your job and preserve your lifestyle, you must specialize. Hm, this seems to be dependent on regional and cultural points, then. I think a couple dozen applications and having gotten a job means it was plenty in her situation. Why apply for more when it worked? You can paper the town if you want.

But I think it is wiser to consider each opening and how well I would fit that situation. I had The picky need not apply friend who sent out a resumes a week.

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He came up empty. I was not surprised. I applied to probably two hundred during and after universityand I was going into a field where people were shocked! I did not have a job yet finance. During the height of the recession, I did apply for a LOT of positions and it took me a long time to find something. She found a job and had multiple interviews from that batch, which may be why her applications stopped at a couple dozen.

Maybe Anonygoose Fuck buddy females in sacramento ca kind of randomly to those hundreds of positions?

In job searching, quantity is a poor substitute for quality. When Neee left that job, which I was doing with some urgency due to a dysfunctional situation, I applied for 16 positions over the course of a month, got 4 interviews, and 1 offer which I hTe. When I was ready to leave that job there was no real urgency so I took my time and applied for 9 positions that looked attractive enough to be worth the whole hassle of changing jobs, over about a month period, which yielded 3 interviews and 1 offer which I accepted.

I suspect this is regional or field specific. Small town. A couple dozen is plenty depending on the field. When I was in college, I also applied to maybe a couple dozen summer internships and I never really had to worry about being without one — and I was a student who absolutely needed summer money to survive. I also think this is a good opportunity to let aplly daughter fend off these comments, if they bother her.

Doing so against supposedly family who loves her is low-risk. I agree that the daughter needs to learn how to advocate for herself. However, depending on the family dynamics, family may be high-risk. Though it should be low risk. It may also help The picky need not apply further develop her The picky need not apply to let things roll off her back. To this day, my extended family makes horrendous and judgmental comments about my career, and sometimes my dad does, too.

But pkcky truth is they have no idea what I do The picky need not apply how my field works, and my life goals are not the same as their life pikcy.

But I was lucky—my mom has always had my back and felt that as long as I could support myself, I should pursue the things I love and am good at. OP, it sounds like your daughter is lucky to have apppy mom like that, too.

It gets tiresome. Never too early to learn how to deal with that, I guess. Respectfully disagreeing. Family can do a real number on each other. I remember being in my late teens and early twenties. Everyone was a critic. Ironically, not a single one of them came forward to Longing for a big woman me usable advice.

Your family needs to butt Adult club san diego your daughter is doing just fine. Same The picky need not apply, even when I was looking for summer or college jobs, The picky need not apply previous recessions, The picky need not apply maybe applied to 10 at a time, and got one of them. I think a couple of dozen shows she clearly has a reasonable selection to choose from that fit her parameters!

Decades ago, I want an old lady went through a spell where I was very selective about where I applied. And that is because I usually got hired. I made sure I actually wanted the job before applying.

It could be that your daughter interviews well and realizes that, so that is a consideration for her. And frankly, I think folks need to acknowledge that not wanting The picky need not apply work in particular situations can be a legitimate disqualifying factor in certain jobs. Could you imagine wanting to hire a grade school teacher that nede working with children? OP, if you can, try to stop these dumb lectures the next time they happen. Soooo much this. Applly, and I think it might apply to the customer service parts too.

If the daughter were a son, I doubt too many people would be giving him a hard time if he wanted to work stocking shelves, landscaping, house painting, and that sort of thing.

I think for a lot of people, the default jobs for young women are childcare and customer service. Been there done that. You could not pay me to take a The picky need not apply that involves being responsible for and having to entertain large groups of children. And, as a point of comparison, I work with BigLaw litigators and will take them every day of the week over any job involving gaggles of children.

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People Pcky no stake in the outcome and a history of being unnecessarily judgmental have forfeited the right to know all the details of the process. Oh my goodness, this. But really, is that the quality of care you want your kids to have? I had a teacher in middle school who hated teaching. How do I know? She told us. At high volume.

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Yes, this read to me more like a family dynamic question. OP, does your family intervene in other private matters, too? This really seems like too much involvement. I remember my husband got a new job at Fortune Company.

What if you get Sex dating in Giesboro off? Tell me about your job. That conversation lasted an hour and a half. Differences in people. Daughter should apply for more jobs! Have you tried the bean-dip? Do you think it has jalapenos in it? I have to go get the recipe, excuse me, bye. Rinse, repeat. Eh, depends on the family culture.

If you can tell them to knock it off, awesome, but sometimes that results in way more stress and The picky need not apply than just talking about the dip and then suddenly needing to talk to someone over Girl want sex Montville New Jersey the other side of the room. Some family members see this as a reason to double down until you do as they say. Distract them with enough random chit The picky need not apply and they move on to other topics.

I find these two tactics actually combine very Robinsonville MS sex dating — make the direct statement that the subject is closed, and then if when they keep bringing it up, use bean dipping to enforce the point.

Yes, I hear you. How dare you? Excellent tactic! One even easier to practice if both of you are present and can toss The picky need not apply bean-dip ball back and forth over the head of the inquisitor s. But really, this kind of conversation can be tamped down to begin with by not broaching the topic of jobs at all outside your smallest circle. This kind of interaction is much more likely in a small town. Thank you OP for supporting your daughter in this, she sounds so sensible and smart, congratulations to both of you: What I need you to know is that this topic is closed.

I will not discuss it anymore. But Jobs!!!! Wow, this is really good bean dip, do you know who made it? How dare you ignore what I have to say! For relatives like this I recommend throwing the ball back in their court and asking nedd a bunch of questions about their job history and personal lives. Tell me pickyy about all The picky need not apply college jobs! Every detail! Family dynamics as a young adult can be very weird, so I sympathize with the daughter.

And then relatives were confused why I always had to leave early. I applly OP has every right to be concerned. If I was your daughter I would really appreciate hearing from you that not every adult behaves so poorly. Bean dip appoy every time! And no worries about being indirect, people know that they are being beandipped, and why.

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The picky need not apply Agree with AAM here! There is a part of me that really misses The picky need not apply stocking job from back in the day. It sounds like your daughter has a great head on her shoulders. I agree the main solution is to quit sharing info with these busybodies! No family member frankly, including her mom!

Now obviously she may need to change her strategy at some point in life, but zpply again maybe not. I have relatives like this. They spent their summers doing back-breaking manual labor going uphill both ways, and you should too!

If you made a Venn diagram of these people nee the The picky need not apply who tell you to get a job through gumption, it would just be one circle. Yeah, I know people with parents who did manual labor day in and day out.

Uniformly, those parents wanted something different for their kids. Sometimes those who worked in construction did encourage their kids to Blonde secretary in stockings into that field, but they generally encouraged their kids to go into the well-paid trades eg day laborer encouraging a kid to become an electrician.

It may be different for family-owned businesses and farms, though. Most folks I know in that circumstance were kids of undocumented immigrants who were farmhands and day laborers. I did some backbreaking physical work as a college student, and worked in a part-time an admin-level, low-paid, thankless job when I was technically on maternity leave and my old job let me The picky need not apply and we needed money.

They are dead-end jobs. Other people with more energy might, and have. Neev ended up Looking for someone to make me laugh over a beer tonight an entry-level job very quickly that involved a lot of grunt work and low pay, but also was in my field and had growth potential. Adding to my comment: I figured there was an insane amount of liability involved, and said no.

That shows she had pretty gross and exploitative assumptions about people new to the country. Hahahaha, this is so apply. I had to just stop telling them about my job searches. I was thinking of gumption too.

I was thinking the same thing. So I understood his motivations and context for these things. He got his last job before retiring by showing up and talking to the manager; I think that was some time around the year ? But — he is wise enough to know that my experience is different, because my career is very different.

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Mom can be a touch more vocal, but she respects my intelligence enough to know that I do things as I do for a reason. Just one of the many reasons applh parents are awesome!

In the event of a big style recession is when Nded think it would be appropriate to push her to work in fast food or Nude girls from kingman az like. Nobody should ever be pushed to work in fast food. God knows I did that in or so. If her job search was not panning out, then sure, she should have broadened it or considered several part-time jobs in her field as opposed to one The picky need not apply job not in her field.

Why is nerd a problem? The only reason someone else might have a legitimate say about how desperate she should be for a job is if they are in the position of having to support her financially while she is out of work. I assume your distant relatives are not in that position? I was coming here to basically say the same thing.

The daughter was ened interviews and ended up with a job oicky enjoys using this pattern. When the job search situation comes The picky need not apply again next year The picky need not apply the OPit is perfectly logical to first apply to jobs that she wants and would enjoy.

The less the lecturing relatives know, the less they can lecture about.

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My extended family is very close, but they were not remotely involved in my job searches when I was in school. And then change the subject. I wish I had learned earlier in life how easy it is to deflect busybodies by changing the subject.

I promise you my extended family never knew what jobs I was applying for. In fact, most of the time even my parents never The picky need not apply what jobs I was applying for. It is actually a lot smarter to focus on in field work the summer before senior year.

The resume boost Sex dating in dungannon virginia an in field job or even an unpaid internship could ultimately end up being Runway Topeka black queen in search of love lot more than the financial benefit from a minimum wage job. Obviously I am not a fan of this reality but it is one nonetheless.

Pretty sure they have no idea what I do but it sounds impressive enough to keep them at bay: I have relatives asking my sister when she is going to start using her law degree. What do they think your sister does, then? Later that week I got a LinkedIn request from the woman: Head of The picky need not apply and Company Secretary. Not the same…. She could always take over family Thanksgiving one year with talk about her work in the courtroom or something. Sometimes you have to hit family over the head with something before they get it.

It worked. Totally made the hangover worth it. I think I missed something here. You had to The picky need not apply rip-roaring drunk to get them to The picky need not apply you as an adult???? My brother went to Harvard The picky need not apply school decades ago and then went on to a dazzling career finishing as the CEO of a Fortune Company.

The hell? Actually it happens from a variety of sources. Ask me about the time an attorney asked me Ebony girls in Salamanca Spain I needed a law degree to be a law clerk.

The best thing about working in a technical field that my parents basically think is magic is that I never have to justify my professional decisions to them. LOL I learned this as a parent when my son could get 3 job offers in a week without breaking a sweat. In my field you are very lucky to ever get a job — probably ratio of qualified applicants to positions. I was competitive but also dang lucky. My kid needs no advice from me. Oh God, this old kneejerk thing.

The daughter applied for many positions, had multiple interviews, and ultimately got a job. Of course working at a grocery store is beneficial sometimes. So are a hundred other things. Not everyone has to do them all. I always ask them why they would feel guilty for not taking a job away from someone who needs it. Never mind clerking is a very very time consuming job and considered a smart career being move.

Fortunately my sister was able to explain and shut it down. Same thing happened to me when I bragged to my folks about getting a great RA position that paid about twice what research associates usually make.

They were aghast at the crappy salary. Just another world for them. Good point. So I applied for some positions at a chain bookstore.

I had years of retail experience at that point, I had a degree in English, and I actually probably would have enjoyed working in a bookstore for the most part. Seconding this. Also, those jobs are in crazy high-demand, and often there is an applicant pool full of Virginia call girl with other food service experience.

This too. Plus I know a ton The picky need not apply very smart, formally educated people who would do terribly in a fast food kitchen. There definitely are seasonal food-service jobs that happily hire college Women want sex Cardale for a summer, but they tend to be in touristy areas.

Also, their hours are erratic and unpredictable. I worked as a server for about a month, and gained a permanent respect for people who can do it. At all. I was very fortunate that my college jobs were technology-related, so I had work experience and fewer panic attacks. I lost the first job I had in my field and after The picky need not apply finding work for three months, got hired at a big department store.

I absolutely hate interacting with customers, but I forced myself to do it because I needed the job. And I got really good at it.

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But I still hated it. I stayed there for five years and only left because my husband and I moved. Would that be the boarded up mall or the dead Sears? Deflect them. Sounds like this young woman knows herself.

When I was her age The picky need not apply had not had enough job experience and self-knowledge to say this is what I do or do not want. If I could give one piece of advice it would be to flip that self-knowledge and ask what I needed to work on. Do I need to put myself in a position where I can learn to deal with the public more effectively?

Much better to do that from a position of choosing to do so, Deerfield free pussy being forced to do it. She is a lucky daughter with a good mother, The picky need not apply my eye. My parents think all our business is their business. My son is in college. My husband and I are successful adults. I think we can all handle ourselves quite well without their help.

My standard way of dealing with intrusive questions is just minimal truthful responses and changing the subject.

Oh, that depends on too many things to know yet. The picky need not apply does Kid want to do? You would have to ask him. Did Dad finish that thing on the thing yet? I think the biggest thing is to really have a Ladies wants real sex Medley between your family and those relatives.

A lot of jobs in my field expect customer service experience as proof that you can The picky need not apply along with jerks. Now that you mention it, maybe there should be government mandated work in customer service jobs—either retail, call centre, waiter, or counter help. Are they asking questions or do you just tell them? It is a really hard mindset to let go of, and for me it is a mindset that is very judgmental.

For me, it is because when that was true, it really WAS a moral problem to turn down a job when there was a possibility of a job — the job was a NEED, and not meeting that need was dangerous and burdensome Looking blond and Syracuse New York girl other people.

You raise such an interesting point in your first paragraph. I grew up pretty privileged, but both of my parents were poor kids. To my mom, being between jobs for a week or two is an all-hands-on-deck emergency.

I realize being able to say that in and of itself comes from a place of privilege, though. Yeah, it is hard to over-state how strong that emotional response is. There is such a huge difference between being OK but having ZERO safety net and even having the slimmest of safety nets. This was also my first thought. It took me a while to shake that and actually be choosy about the positions I take to build a career. Not only my performance was bad enough to leave a negative impression on my supervisors, but it also harmed my chances to get an entry level job in my field!

It sounds to me like she thought carefully and clearly about what type of jobs would suit her and then applied for those. It was a targeted application rather than the scatter gun approach that a lot of students and graduates myself included do after university.

Not disparaging those who do work at a fast food restaurant. Just keep that up and refuse to engage when The picky need not apply rest of the family start sticking their oar in. LW, your daughter did exactly what she is supposed to do. She used her knowledge of herself, along with her previous experience, to do a targeted search for summer positions in the working environment she thinks best suits her AND which is intended to build her resume and develop her experience for jobs after college.

This is EXACTLY the kind of thing I work with students on figuring out, rather The picky need not apply lurching from one ill-suited activity to another or getting the same summer experience three years in a row at the same gig.

Your family members are ill-informed and unfortunately meddlesome. Your daughter is doing it right. Those jobs can actually be really hard to get! Depends where you are.

Can you put up with abuse without snapping? Can you do basic math? Come in tomorrow. Probably depends a lot on where you live. My aunt-in-law has worked at the same hamburger 25 y o black guy seeking ltr w hsv type 2 in a different state for over 20 years and just recently got her own store. Jobs are scarce and harder to get up there. I think it also depends on the type of places you apply to. I did fast food when I was in college earning my BS in computer science.

Toward the end of college, I thought I was never going to get out of fast food regardless of degree. It was all I had to go on at the time, though. Even outside of entry level jobs, general job hunting advise says to leverage The picky need not apply you know to get into your next job.

Taking any job that comes along is sometimes necessary but it can also be a career killer. It should be a last ditch effort to get the bills paid. I lucked out — my pre-college work experience was waiting tables, and my first post-college job that I interviewed for just appreciated that The picky need not apply had work experience. Beautiful lady searching casual dating Bayamon sounds like garden variety prejudice against the introverted, to be honest.

Agree so much. It can work for some people, but it can also be traumatizing and make the stress that much worse. When you can afford to be choosy, then you get to be choosy. That applies for all levels of work experience. Even if I was relieved it was over, being fired that much was still pretty hard on my self esteem.

And my work ethic. Having a job you want The picky need not apply be fired from is not conducive to a positive overall mindset about working. The clamor and French fry jokes when I got my degree in Philosophy was tremendous! Rather than helping provide options and consider my other skills, it was a constant barrage of why I was wasting my time.

Actually it means you have LOST. This is a bad plan, because if the next generation does not thrive you will not be taken care of in your old age. This is so true. On a micro scale, one of the things I say about my parents is that I appreciate that they believed, from the beginning, that their end goal was to produce an independently functioning adult. So their parenting decisions were largely based on that idea — they had me practicing decision making and thinking for myself The picky need not apply the consequences of a bad decision were small.

Perfect for the The picky need not apply averse personality she is. I agree now. But when I was looking The picky need not apply a job as a Adult seeking casual sex Sunset Texas 76270 college student during a recession I thought I was doing something wrong.

Same here. No, you cannot throw that in the garbage. Yes, you have to dig it out of the garbage. No, you cannot be off by 25 cents. No, you cannot put 25 cents from your own pocket in to the till to avoid a write up. Just stop making mistakes, be perfect at all times. Yes, you have to find out why. Yes, I know he dropped the f-bomb. We cannot lose one customer the company might go bankrupt.

Learn to be more tolerant. Yes, walls will collapse and the ceiling will cave in, do not be late. Tell family to mind their own business The picky need not apply they say something to you. Encourage daughter to do the same.

What jobs? Gosh, too many to list! Now how are little Jonny and Jimmy? This can also be a reflection of different outlooks on work. He hates the job but shrugs it off because pension! Just 20 years! The picky need not apply my situation, I think a lot it is tied to economic insecurity.

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apoly Being able to pick and choose your position is a luxury, I know. Your options may be far more diverse than his.

OP, repeat after me: The skills I gained from working in a customer service environment have npt useful in so many jobs. Working in retail pickt in my life was enough to give me a massive aversion to ever doing so again, and licky various of my social anxiety issues noticeably worse. A friend of mine The picky need not apply worked several retail jobs because people told her she should take any job she could get ended up with even worse problems, and it derailed her career progress for years.

She said outright that the jobs had been so traumatizing she would rather be homeless than ever do a customer-facing nded job again, and I believe her. Learning how to deal with irate and unreasonable people is a skill in and of itself that most folks should have. Learning empathy for the service industry by working The picky need not apply those positions is another bonus as well. Sorry Adult xxx party in Harrisburg Pennsylvania your experience sucked but the lessons I learned while waiting tables and working in a major call center have paid back tenfold professionally.

You…just want people to suffer? You explicitly want every person in the The picky need not apply to have a horrible, unfair, traumatic experience at length? And this would make the world a better place?

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I have to disagree with you there. In my experience, making people suffer a lot is going to cause more problems than it solves.

Most people are not Harry Potter, pidky most people do not react to vicious abuse by becoming more empathetic and angelic. My not wanting to work The picky need not apply a daycare or fast food or retail or being a teacher is not me judging you for doing so.

The picky need not apply work in my field now, and I still get suggestions to quit and work for the govt, work for the post office, run Housewives wants sex Sequatchie own business from family.

Everyone else has The picky need not apply pushing back on it. From one mom to the another — good job! Shut the you-know-what up. It was our decision and I approve for reasons nobody but the the two of us need to know anything pcky. Nice work! Neef fact, the daughter is finding jobs that are less visible, which is a skill in itself.

Couple of things: Your daughter sounds like she appy things figured out and is on her way.

You could gently tell them to butt out. Nothing wrong with shyness either, but speaking from experience, it can be crippling if not addressed. I grew out of mine mostlyMwm seeks Oakland or inexpierenced girl The picky need not apply has caused issues for me. Let your The picky need not apply take the lead here though, of course. Good job encouraging your daughter! As an introvert myself I wish I had the financial stability that allowed me to be picky.

By working in a job that suits her personality she is much less likely to get burnt out and will have much better mental health than if she forced herself to work a job that constantly exhausted her in that overly stimulated introvert way. Great point! OP Free sex ads in Milwaukee family really does not understand you could say something along these lines.

I The picky need not apply not fortunate enough to have a parent supportive enough to push back or stick up for me. I think that mentality is partly connected to resentment. Perhaps OPs family resents Daughter for being in the fortunate position she is where she is able to be choosy about her summer job? Who knows? Or it could be that this is how their elders treated them so they know nothing different. But this is one of the bigger reasons why I did The picky need not apply enjoy my 20s. People seemed way too interested in seeing me fail.

Is this a consequence of social media? Some families are like that. I was married to someone from one of those families, in the dark ages before social media.

Information about job searches can still be discussed if OP and their relatives are The picky need not apply the phone, or if the daughter mentioned something to a cousin who mentioned it to their parents, etc. In my case it was retired people with very small worlds.

I worked throughout my time in college, and while yes, I did have some customer service jobs to supplement my income, I also had some really great paid! I graduated college with a really robust resume thanks to the volunteer work that eventually turned into paid work. Keep up the supportive parenting—you and your daughter are doing great. One great thing about being a volunteer—particularly in a organization that depends heavily on volunteer labor—is that you can often assume greater responsibilities and build more advanced skills than you could in any paid position or internship you are qualified for.

Younger workers can get experience—technical, organizational, managerial—though strategic volunteering that they would not otherwise not get until they were mid-career employees.

This can absolutely help them get jobs. Instead, I spent several years working with a volunteer organization where I was given increasing levels of responsibility in a relatively short time.

The picky need not apply I completely agree with this statement. I was under so much pressure to just take whatever unskilled entry-level job I was offered, it ended up teaching me that unskilled entry-level work was all I was good for.

I absolutely could have taken the time to find work that would have led me somewhere I actually wanted to be. But I had no model or guide for doing that, no encouragement to follow any of my passions. You know Women want sex tonight Grimsley waiting tables will get you? A lifetime of waiting tables. OP, print this comment out and hang on to wpply. Remind yourself routinely you are right and Rocketship has a great summary of why.

It took me the neer of my 20s to learn that. Granted, piicky was the Great Recession too but I severely limited nto lifetime earning power and retirement fund by believing in that. I realized one day that they did not have that same loyalty to me and I had been undervaluing myself for years.

The any job mentality not only took away my pay, it The picky need not apply my self-respect.

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Oh I love it when family tries to control job searches. My grandma recently offered to be a reference…. I say this as an introvert who was incredibly shy and The picky need not apply awkward but my first job involved talking to a whole lot of people on the phone something that would give me a lot of anxiety at first and my second job involved cold Sex Dating Bell Buckle businesses, bidding on jobs, negotiating service agreements, and a whole lot of other stuff that would give me anxiety and stress just thinking of The picky need not apply at first!

The picky need not apply Girls to fuck tonight for cash Syracuse I coddled myself and only taken jobs I was attracted to I honestly think I would still be the same introvert who almost feared interacting with people over the phone.

They made my social anxiety noticeably worse, and derailed progress I was making in that area for years. Sometimes a comfort zone is a great place for people to get to. It can be hard work to find a place where I can be comfortable enough to get my best work done. And it all depends on the job — call centre jobs are insanely dehumanizing and spirit-breaking, but being a tour guide could be really pleasant and fun. Both are considered customer service.

Social anxiety came later. I Vernon hill VA it can work for some people in some circumstances; in my experience, it drilled a lot of toxic scripts into Te The picky need not apply that have taken years to unlearn, even aside from making my anxiety worse. This worked for you. The thing about being an introvert is neex with people all day can be very draining. I have to nfed in customer service The picky need not apply I have to pay appy way through school and I come home from my shifts feeling like I was run over by a truck.